I think it’s wonderful when someone offers a suggestion or another point of view to a problem. Lets face it, we all are willing to add our two cents,wanted or not. What I find flustering is when the offering isn’t seen by you as”oh my gosh, why didn’t I think of that?” Or what seems so simple to the person suggesting the solution, they become defensive when you try to explain that A, you’ve tried that. Or B, it’s not practical and why. Lately things have been a bit slow for work. For many reasons. If I say anything I get “why don’t you go to work in a really nice salon?” Then what? Unless I’m mistaken, that magic door hasn’t been around in years. Let me explain. That’s the door that the salon owner of this new fancy salon I’ve just gotten a job in, opens. Behind it are lots and lots of new clients who were just waiting for me to start working there. Now they can sit in my chair one by one. An endless supply. And at the end of the week, there’s a pot of gold for me to take home. Now I can get back on track and pay those bills and have some spending money too. Now why didn’t I think of that? R-